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#HerStory: Nina Corder

Updated: Dec 3, 2020


Perhaps you’ve heard this phrase before, “You cannot Give, what you do not Have”.


It all began with a research quest to understand organizational culture and community – in specific how diverse individuals who were not born here, grew up, or go to school in the area find ways to connect and adapt within the community that they now live, work and raise a family. In other words- how do you find the value and transition within the community that is not given to you?

Because of curiosity, I discover more than what I bargained for.

And it is a happy bargain.

If you know the history of Women of Toledo. You understand what I mean by this.

To quote from The City Paper’s last year’s 2019 Big Ideas column, “Nina Corder is no stranger to happy accidents. In 1997, at 19, she came to Toledo from Malaysia as an international student with plans to return home. But she didn’t. And 16 years later, in 2013, while still in the U.S. working on her doctoral dissertation in organizational leadership, she formed a focus group of women to study culture and diversity. She didn’t plan to start an organization, but she did”.

The culture and energy that evolved from the original focus group was something I never experienced before. You discover that many of the stories shared, life lessons, and experienced should not be ignored, we have lots to learn, work to do and the exploration should continue. The group evolved and stretched from its capacity as a focus group and turned into an educational forum of success stories. Ordinary and extraordinary stories were told, unpacking the reality of being a woman, a wife, a mother, a sister, a leader, an artist, and other barriers or biases, we women encounter every day in our lives within this community, and globally.

When a woman shares #herstory, we all learn to respectfully listen, learning to relearn and suddenly, become aware. Organically, mentorship grew as we offered and sought advice from one another. We educate, engage, and empower one another. And the remarkable response –

We see you.

We hear you.

You do Matter.

And we are here for you! Therefore, how can we help you?

As much as I believe the organization is helping, mentoring, and serving women in our community, in its early years I needed it for myself. Back then, I’ve been in Toledo for almost 20 years, and just recently I finally call this city home, and I do believe it is because of the mentors, peers, and circles of women within Women of Toledo. I knew that I needed strong, empowered women around me, and fortunately, I also discovered my sense of belonging.

They see me.

They hear me.

I do Matter.

And they are here for #metoo! Now, how can I add value and give you what I have?

My ah-ha moment came when I read - “Diversity is having a seat at the table, inclusion is having a voice, and belonging is having that voice be heard.” – Fosslien & Duffy.

I am heard, seen, valued, and empowered. When you are empowered, you also discover a passion and purpose within yourself. I believe ‘passion is for you’ and ‘purpose is for others’. Without a doubt, the organization allows me to serve others, be something bigger than myself, and challenge the status quo – that we all should be heard.

I might have shared this with you before, as a self-proclaimed researcher, I enjoy listening to other women in our community either during any of our talking circle sessions or listening sessions during pilot program exploration.

ONE. I learned - Poverty is not just about a lack of money. It’s about a lack of power.

Bossed-up.

So, I choose power while engaging others to do the same.

TWO. I also learned -Power is a person’s ability to influence their environment, other people, and their outcomes, and Autonomy is a person’s ability to act according to their own decisions, rather than according to other’s decisions.

mmm... I do not choose Power, I choose to support a person’s autonomy.

And we engage others to embrace one's autonomy.

Then, I discovered just as important as material wealth, power vs. autonomy, and economic success, THREE, people’s sense of control over the trajectory of their lives and being valued in the community, especially their sense of belonging is important too.

Yes – to be valued and belong.

Over the years, I learn to relearn. Expand my knowledge by knowing what to say, while using my wisdom when to say it.

The bigger question is, ‘how are you using what you learn, the knowledge and wisdom, to create opportunities for others?’

I believe every woman has the potential to be successful. However, not all of us have a connection, opportunity, and visibility to do so.

Women of Toledo provides a platform that creates connection, mentorship, visibility, and opportunities while you explore your values and belonging in our community.


You cannot Give, what you do not Have, right?


We can create such a platform because many of our leadership and team have discovered that we do ‘have’ what it takes, to ‘give’ back, mentor, and serve our community.


This year is a challenging year for many of us, looking at crises as opportunities, we continued serving, mentoring, and connecting in a way that’s effective for our community - We learned to meet them where they're at, what and when they need it.

Going back to the roots and the foundation that builds the organization, we gather to listen, learn to relearn, and create an opportunity to provide a more equitable community to all. And perhaps, now more than ever we understand how to add values to humanities.

FOUR. Malaysia is always my home country, and now, Toledo Ohio is my home!

Thank you for listening (*reading). 💕💕


Currently the Managing Director of this organization, Nina Corder is originally from Malaysia but resides in Toledo for the past 24 years. She is also the Founding Member of Woman of Toledo (WOT). Establish in 2013, as part of her Doctoral Degree dissertation in Organizational Leadership, now the organization becomes a hub where a diverse group of women’s leaders committed to bringing together a community to learn from and about each other at advocating for Diversity, Inclusion, and Belonging with a focus on Women Economic Empowerment. In June 2020, Nina was appointed by the City of Toledo's Mayor Wade Kapszukiewicz to serve as the Executive Member for the City of Toledo, Human Relations Commission. The commission will support residents working to overcome prejudice and build mutual respect. In her lifetime, Nina has worked and lived in five countries and traveled to more than 20 countries around the world. Nina full Bio here: Nina Corder

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